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Posted on Jul 21, 2009 at 08:49 PM

Hi guys/girls; I'm back and I just got done reading a blog written by an unhappy camper. The problem was that "HE HAD A POINT". He pointed out that we all join sites like this and yet when and if someone shows a little interest in us we clam up as if we were poked with a stick, usually because the one trying to reach out to us is a little or a lot older, has a few gray hairs or a few less hairs. It was also pointed out that a lot of us pass ourselves of as "average nice guys". I am guilty of this one myself. In my profile I put down "average" for body shape and then I published my picture.It is obvious in that picture, even though it was taken by my webcam (Oops my phone I have to go pick up my friend at work I'll be back)..........I'm back again, only it's an hour and a half later. My friend wasn't feeling well and left work early and no we are not doing anything physical, he's just a friend although I'd love it if there was more to the situation than there actually is. He's very young and very, very cute. He's all boy though through and through and far more responsible than most guys his age. But let us get back to the subject this dissertation is all about. As I was saying before I had to leave, my picture was taken by my webcam and isn't the best but it definately shows I'm not exactly average in size(body) and for those who are wondering,(I'm probably the same size as you unless your huge,then I'd probably be small or if your small then I'd be huge. My thingy is just the right size besides like anything more than a mouthfull is kinda a waste). Again I digress from the subject at hand, I'm a big guy and I'm big all over, I always have been. I have a good heart though and I treat my friends well and that part of my profile is true. I only fibbed about my size and it wasn't a very big fib.I'm probably average for my age judging from what I see in other 58 year old guys. Although I intend no insult to anybody compared to some guys my age I'm almost svelt(in a big sort of way).LOL Another question the writer of the blog I read had was "why if we aren't going to answer querries from older guys do we even sign up to the sites in question. Just because an older fella directs his attention in your direction doesn't mean your going to have to jump into bed with him. Some of us are actually interesting people and at the very least deserve a little curtesy we are people after all. I must admit I'm guilty of that as well I've failed to answer a few inquiries, Some from older, some from younger and some just cause they were to damm far away. At least one was because I couldn't answer, free membership like this site where you can't even change the font. Mind you I have had a few no answers over the years but they were winks to guys whom I thought were really easy on the eyes. I didn't really expect an answer from them and the winks were meant as a compliment and nothing else. Some of you young guys out there and I've seen your profile photos and some of you's are ________(insert your own adjective)sweet looking so if some older fella winks at you or says hello you should at least blush cause in most although not all cases it's a compliment and deserves at least a heartfelt thanx. It's the polite thing to do and cause we all claim to be nice guys it should be easy for us to be polite. I know I will from now on. How about you? How about all you guys who want penpals and/or conversation, in order to do either one you have to reply to inquiries. Conversations tend to be really boring if nobody says anything and it is impossible to be penpals if no one writes. Now I know there are a few guys out there who are saying "well why do these old farts try to contact me in the first place,it says right in my profile what I'm looking for". Think about it for a minute haven't you ever gone somewhere seen a hot piece across the room and not tried to catch their eye or say hello or WINKED. HMMMMM!! Well, haven't you?... uh huh, thought so. Now you know why older guys say hello, same reason, we're just a little older not completely f%#&!^g dead. I would think that there are at least one or two of us that think a young, fit male body is just about the most beautiful thing to look at on the face of the earth. Doesn't even have to be naked, I love boxer shorts, adds a little mystery. Thank God for young fit guys, I could just kiss em all....all over!....I know , I'm bad. Does anyone get the impression that I like young guys and these days 45 is pushing he upper limit of what I personally consider young.... (;. My goodness it's 3:00am and I have to get up for work early. This working stuff sure sucks at times, doesn't it? I guess I'll call it a night fellas, again it's been a joy talking to you. Give yourselves a big hug for me and all you young hunks I want you to gently kiss the tip of your index finger and reach down and touch it to your belly button....that's from me to you and remember all you hot guys. I like young guys but I really like T.V. and I love angelfood cake with whip cream on it. Now if I could just get those 3 things together .... YUMMY!!...Till later...toodles.

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